Jay Miller 11/21/24 Jay Miller 11/21/24

Why I Love Kink and BDSM. How about yourself?

Jay Miller 10/26/24 Jay Miller 10/26/24

What a Submissive Masochist Should Stay Away From When Seeking a Dom or Domme

I do apologize for the graphic nature of this post. But, I need to get some things off my chest. But, recently a female masochist friend of mine told me a horry story of having her rectum torn during a scene where she was bound spanked, whipped, and received anal sex from a friend of his with no lubrication causing an evening in the emergency room.

Jay Miller 3/13/24 Jay Miller 3/13/24

Why are some potential subs shocked when I as a Dom bring up boundaries?

I have to say something about this. Yes, this will be a short rant. I had been corresponding with a lady earlier in 2022.

Jay Miller 1/4/24 Jay Miller 1/4/24

Non-Sexual Subs & Doms’ Need Attention To

The beauty of BDSM is that we come in a variety of desires and fetishes. Some of which have nothing to do with sex. However, when someone says they are nonsexual it seems to be frowned upon in the kink community. Before I begin to say more, I should probably explain what a nonsexual submissive or Dominant is….

Jay Miller 5/31/23 Jay Miller 5/31/23

Red Flags to Consider When Seeking A Dom For the First Time

First, I don’t consider myself an expert and this is just my opinion based on observation and so much more. I am also writing this because of an incident that occurred to a kink friend of mine last week that has been on my mind.

Jay Miller 4/28/23 Jay Miller 4/28/23

Got a DM About My Trans College Sweetheart & Here is My Response to the Ignorance

I got a DM a months ago. The young man wrote the following, “Hi I saw in one of your post that you dated a shemale in college. Do you consider yourself gay and if not how did you over come the fact that she has a dick?