First off by no means am I a sex worker. I am just a kinky guy whom for 10 years has embraced that part of myself and I thrive as being a teacher and mentor to a lady starting to take her kink journey. I am not seeking pay or any compensation other than friendship from my scenes. With that said, I don’t meet with just anyone. I take kink very seriously. So I hope you are serious as well.

My Looks:

I am 5’8, yeah I am a short guy, I am mixed with African American and white. My father has Italian in him, and my mother African American by way of Jamaica. So I do have a mixed look. But, I mostly look black. I consider myself attractive. I have never gotten any ladies repulsed by my appearance. But, everyone has their preferences. I know I do. I have a prepy look. I wear a suit by day and nothing at night. Just kidding. Once you get to know me you will learn I never take myself to seriously. I am no supermodel, I am just a normal guy who keeps his body and mind fit and healthy.

Why Am I Here:

After taking my first steps into the BDSM world four years ago change my perspective on sexuality and I grew so much. I was privileged to be the Dom of a wonderful obedient sub for three years. I do say privileged. Lets be honest, having a female submit to you is a gift. My sub and I experienced everything together for the first time and it was amazing. The more we explored the more confident I grew in my role as a Dom. However, our careers have taken us into different directions and different States. I do take this seriously. I spent quite a bit of time vetting subs before I meet with them. I do that because I spend considerably a lot of time creating custom scenes for them.

I don’t like my time wasted. So if you are just playing online, looking for OnlyFans subscribers, or have no intention of even working with me. Leave me alone. I have way to much going on to have my time wasted. It also takes my time away from submissives that really want a release.

My personality:

In my vanilla life, I am a proud uncle. After my sister and brother in law passed away, I took on the role of guardian to my niece. So I can't meet at all hours of the night. I have a child-like nature and I never sweat the small stuff. I work in the government, so you won’t see me posting face pics and nudes with me showing my face on this webiste. But, if you're interested in me, of course, I will send you a pic. In my leisure time, I love to kayak, hike, visit national parks with my four-legged daughter. On rainy days, I will admit I am a sucker for board games. I also have a nerdy side. But, I have found that is very common in D.C.


In the lifestyle, many would say I am pretty confident and not afraid to speak my mind. In my role as a Dom, I can be strict, but as my x would say romantic. I guess in many ways I am that gentle Dom. Aftercare is very important to me. I have heard some Doms rush through it. Don’t get me wrong, I do have my kinky appetite for things such as sadism, bondage, water sports and so much more. But most of all. I strive in creating a safe space for my submissives to explore and let go.  

What I am seeking:

I am now on my own again and looking for long-lasting friendships and likeminded people that I can not only learn from but share my experiences with. I am also look for new friends and play partners. I would love to meet an attractive submissive female who might be new to the lifestyle and curious about exploring domination and submission or a well experienced sub. I am seeking that lady who wants to continue this journey with me and see where it takes us. I am open to making or arrangement, not a relationship. I don't see Fetlife as a dating website.

Please be a lady or trans feminine that takes care of your temple, your body. Let's face; it all of this starts with attraction. I won't be offended if you are not attracted to me. This might sound blunt. But, if you have never been to a gym in the past month or taken a jog, and weigh more than me or look masculine like a man in a dress, I will probably not be interested. If you want to know anything else about me. I am an open book. All you have to do is ask.

So Why Should You Work With Me

Not only do I strive in creating a safe space for new and experience submissives to relax, let go, and explore. But, do ask yourself the following:

• I desire a safe space to be a true slut

• I am inexperienced sexually and am so eager to learn how to truly fuck.

• I crave pain and want to explore my limits

• Being on my knees and bound is my happy place

• Serving my Dominant is my happy place

• I wish to explore my bisexual urges in a safe space under the guidance of a Dominant

• I need that long good spanking

• Torture me with orgasm control

• Teach me how to quirt

• I crave water sports. Lets get wet and nasty

• I want to let that animal out and experience primal pleasure

If any of the above are desires that you have thought about or are aching to explore.  Then don’t hesitate in reaching out to me. Every submissive’s experience is a unique and amazing one. I would be privileged to join you on that journey.