First, I don’t consider myself an expert and this is just my opinion based on observation and so much more. I am also writing this because of an incident that occurred to a kink friend of mine last week that has been on my mind.

I got a DM a months ago. The young man wrote the following, “Hi I saw in one of your post that you dated a shemale in college. Do you consider yourself gay and if not how did you over come the fact that she has a dick?